Should My Teen Go to College?

Guest Post: Abigail Endsley (written for a teen)

College is important. Especially in today’s society, with so many jobs requiring a bachelor’s degree as a minimum bar to entry.

But is college important for you?

In my opinion, the only question that should determine whether or not you should earn your bachelor’s degree is this:

This can be a challenging question to answer. Especially because the college experience has become so important to our society that when you do stop and question whether you should get a degree, both colleges and college haters are quick to weigh in.

Most arguments for and against going to college focus on broad societal statistics, like the earning potential of a degree, or the national student debt garnered by college graduates.

These various arguments are interesting, and they’re worth considering when making your choice. But deciding whether or not you should go to college is far more complex than Googling a pro/con list.

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It’s a big question. And it’s even harder to answer than the first. But when it comes down to it, college is all about preparing for your future, right?

So, hard as it may be to hear, the choice between whether or not you should go to college depends entirely on what you want to do, and how you can best prepare for that future.

I know that isn’t the cut-and-dry answer you were looking for. But did you really expect a stranger on the internet to be able to make this choice for you?

I don’t know you personally, and therefore, I can’t tell you what’s best for your life. So instead, I’ll encourage you to stop Googling and start thinking.

Here are some resources and ideas you can pursue to help you make this decision for yourself.

  • What am I good at?
  • What kind of work brings me fulfillment?
  • How much money do I want to make?
  • Who do I want to work for?
  • Do I want to turn any of my hobbies into a job?
  • What resources and opportunities do I have around me? (Friends who can recommend you, connections to education or internships, etc.)
  • Do I like academic, classroom learning, or do I learn better on the job?
  • Am I very self-motivated, or do I need external motivators?

These aren’t the only questions that can help you discover if college is right for you. But they’ll give you a good foundation for understanding yourself, how your brain works, and your own goals, which will lead to clarity.

Find an internship or volunteer in a field you’re interested in. You’ll be able to learn about that field first-hand and get some hands-on experience for your resume, too!

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Find someone working a job you think you may want and strike up a conversation! Ask what they do and don’t like about their job, and hear their own opinions on what it takes to “make it.”

Sometimes it’s worth talking to someone who has seen a lot more of the world, even if they’re not working in your field of choice. They might have the perspective you need to develop a wise plan for moving forward. (Your parents are a great choice for this, however, they may be too emotionally invested in your decisions to provide the clarity you need. In addition, consider talking to a close adult friend, academic counselor, or church leader.)

Try choosing at least two ideas from this list and pursuing them in tandem. If you’re thinking of becoming a veterinarian, volunteer at a local vet’s office while pursuing a flexible, affordable education.

No amount of reading other people’s opinions for and against college will truly help you make this decision. As long as you take time to think through your options and begin broadening your life experiences, you’re headed in the right direction.

Just consider carefully and make the wisest choice you can with the information you have.

You’ve got this!

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Michelle Osborn is the founder of Homeschooling Teens Successfully and a passionate advocate for homeschooling parents. A devoted wife and 22-year homeschool veteran, Michelle has successfully graduated all four of her children from homeschool—each now thriving in their own careers. Her heart for encouraging moms shines through in everything she does, from leading worship to coaching one-on-one, and developing courses and resources. She also hosts the annual Homeschooling Teens Summit and the Curriculum and Resources for Teens Events, both designed to equip and inspire families during the high school years. With years of hands-on experience and a deep love for the homeschooling community, Michelle is dedicated to helping parents homeschool high school with confidence and purpose.

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